When you're in love with someone you think they'd be a joy to have around for anything!! You get in over your head and make commitments to the person you can never take back. Or you share things with them you realize were better left unsaid. Learn from many that have traveled down the wrong path before, and don't do this.
1) GOING WITH HER TO THE GYNECOLOGIST
For whatever reason comfort, a desire to have you understand the female anatomy better--some women like to drag their man to the gyno. It might seem harmless at first, and you don't want to be mean by saying no, so you tag along. But know this: if you're in the room, and your girlfriend is complaining of any symptoms or issues down there, the doctor will turn to you as another source of information. After discussing your woman's va jay jay in medical terms, it will never look or feel the same to you again.
2) GETTING HER INTO VIDEO GAMES
You know she'll love your games if you could just get her to play them one time. But that's the problem: she probably will love them and become just as addicted to them as you are. And then, you can never just play the thing alone again. You may also become competitive with each other, and that tension can carry on away from the gaming console. I get it: you want to share with her something that you love. Pick something else.
3) TAKING HER TO GUYS NIGHT
She tells you she'll be cool. She tells you, "But you friends love me!" She says she'll act like one of the boys, or that you'll hardly even notice she's there. It doesn't matter how much your boys love your girl: the instant a girl walks into a room of all men, a shield goes up. Men have deeply ingrained little filters around women. And even if those filters are slight, there is a cloud over the night that doesn't let them act quite as they would if a woman weren't there. Don't do that to your boys. What's worse is maybe their filters won't kick in and your girl will be mortified at what she hears and sees.
4) SEXUAL ACTS YOU BOTH WERE UNCERTAIN ABOUT
If there is any sexual act, from toys to threesomes, that both you and your partner felt uneasy about doing, don't do it. If you don't go into those kinds of things with complete certitude, there's usually a feeling of regret afterwards.
5) ARGUING IN FRONT OF YOUR FRIENDS
I don't care who started it: you end it. You'll both feel humiliated afterwards if you engaged in a full on couples dispute in front of your friends. Not only will you feel bad about putting them through that, but you'll also inevitably begin to wonder who "won" the fight in the eyes of your friends. Who do they think is the better partner, now that they've seen the two of you battle? Subconsciously, you'll be battling to be the better partner in front of your friends from there on out.
6) SHARING PAST SEX STORIES
You have a funny sex story from one of your exes or a one-night stand that you know will make your partner laugh. But guess what: no matter how funny your story, all your partner will be thinking about is the image of you with somebody else. If you get really unlucky, she'll feel the need (to be fair, or to torture you in return) to share one of her past sex stories. Then neither of you will be laughing, and probably not having sex that night.
Take this advice and you should avoid the mistakes of others who have crashed and burned!!!!!
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