SEX, LOVE, AND PAIN: WHO IS WHO??



SEX, LOVE, AND PAIN

Hey ET6’ers,

Hey hey hey!!!!! Guess who’s bizzack???? Its meeeeee ya girl, ya friend ya dirty lil secret, Jewel.  I’ve been gone for a minute but I’m back with the jump off.  LOL I know it’s been a minute but let’s chat!!!! I’m hoping that everyone is moving and shaking and all that good stuff, and buying ET6 Apparel to do it in!!! *hint hint*lol

So let’s dance….. 
 WHO IS WHO?

*****NOW HIRING***** TALL DARK AND HANDSOME MAN, MUST WORK AND BE WILLING TO LOVE IN EXCHANGE FOR EVERYTHING I HAVE. NO REFERENCES NEEDED CALL 1800-GET-OVER  TO SET UP AN INTERVIEW COME DRESSED TO IMPRESS AND PREPARED TO WOW!

All relationships are perfect in the beginning.  The beginning of the relationship is when you meet the representative of your mate(THINK Job Interview where you are the ideal employee who has never been late or stolen staples).  The representative is the one who does no wrong, the one who has stepped out of your dreams and into your life.

How many times have you met someone and said “He or she is perfect”? It is perfectly fine to answer honestly, I won’t judge you.  Baby I been there done that.  The reason you are able to say that he or she is perfect, is because at the time that observation is made, it’s the truth.

Don’t follow?  Ok watch this…

You meet a young man you are interested in he introduces himself as Joseph. Joseph is tall dark and lovely.  He tells you he has a job working for UPS and plans to go back to school to study Criminal Justice.  He’s a looker and smells of the finest cologne.  You like him. He’s someone you wouldn't be ashamed to bring around your family. Date after date he blows your mind (this is assuming you even date because let’s face it that went out the door with umm… manners).  You get closer and closer and then little by little the mask begins comes off.  You notice his work schedule is not quite adding up and you never hear about school or ambitions of ever again.  By now you are emotionally invested and ready to f#ck him silly, so you see the b.s starting you just turn the other cheek (the ass cheek).

Fast forward a couple of months you are in a full blown relationship. (Yes it is that fast because that’s how the female mind works another blog for another day) The more time you spend together the more you notice that work is less prevalent in his life, less important or a non mother#ckin factor.  The only thing in your mind now is “nowwhat.com”.  You see we women have this notion that we can change a man or better yet raise a man.  Well I’m here to tell you that you CAN’T.                                


Women try to change men and end up losing themselves in the process.  Oh not you??? Ok, I won’t tell if you don’t. However COMMA, lemme remind you of your savings account that is now empty because he wants to wear LOUBOUTIN’S AND HERMES BELTS.  Or let me remind you of the time you were cabbing it everywhere because you couldn’t get a car because you used all your credit to get him a car that neither one of y’all could even afford to look at.  Let’s not get it confused he probably will care for you, he will even tell you he loves you sheeeiiittttt he will go as far as putting a ring on it.  But don’t jump for joy just yet you ain’t Bey and He ain’t Jay. 


The object of the game he is playing is to stay comfortable for as long as he can.  He will go to any extremes necessary in order to make sure he remains in the position he is in. On top, of life and you!   So yes he will tell you he loves you down, Yes he will meet the family even introduce you to his friends (yes they do that now so don’t get Gassed) He is not doing because he loves you, He is however doing it because he loves what he is now getting and will continue to get from you

What you have to do to get out of this situation is SIMPLE.  You have to learn to hold yourself in a higher regard.  Know that what you bring to the table is more than enough and that a man needs to match your fly or keep walking by.

Don’t just give in and give it up!  D!CK IS EVERYWHERE.  Why should you settle for a man who doesn’t want to add to your worth, but is rather looking to take all that he can?  No real man would want you to go for broke mentally, emotionally and financially because making him hot!!! Any Dude that thinks that shit is cute is what I like to call a BITCH-MADE Ni@@a. BITCH-MADE NI@@A is defined as a man that gains social relevance and status by using a woman. 

Simply put that sh!t ain’t Hot!!!!

Think of Frankenstein.  It’s all fun and games until the man you created is tearing you apart.  Start looking into the mirror and into yourself.  Re-evaluate your life with him and the life you had before him.  You don’t have to tell me what you find, but know that we see exactly what you see.  The difference is you have the power to change it.


*Personal note* I see a girl that is about my age who I am cordial with and I wonder why she is with the BOY she has chosen.   I know him personally and I know that he ain’t worth sh!t.  But he keeps her quiet by providing material things.  When I look at her knowing the things that I know, I hurt for her.  She can’t see what the world sees yet because those Gucci shades he just bought her keep her shaded. Even worse is the fact that her soul is as empty as that new Fendi bag he just bought home. My words to you because I know you will read this, stop selling yourself short and sell those shoes and bags on EBAY and get out while you can!!!  You are beautiful and worth more than anything in Saks, Bloomies, Bergdorf’s and Niemen's.

Anyway y’all I think for the most part I was all over the place but hey I missededed y’all!!! Yes I said Missededed… lol SO I just told y’all what was on my mind.  Send those questions hit my boys up and order some ET6 apparel and do me a favor and love yourselves!!!!!


Be good at being naughty, it’s more fun!
 
LOVE,


JEWEL XOXO